The way of Bob

One's creed in life should always be: whatever the choices presented to you, always choose the path that makes you the lesser asshole in your actions to others, unless the choice presented is to be the action of karma, in which case, be the best the best asshole you can be.

I need to find a way to sum this up better. As it is, it's too long. Ideally, one should always strive to just not be an asshole to others without good (non-selfish) reason. That simple act, shared by everyone, would make the entire world a better place if EVERYONE did it. But alas, for every non-asshole out there, there's a dick ready to find a way to fuck them over one way or another.

This is always turning up as reasons and excuses for so many I discuss this with, and usually always biased in some manner to justify their own overlooking of their own actions which they innately seem to be aware of as possessing assholish tendencies. And it's from these very unseen and unspoken parts of these people that I have made my grander observation that most people are, whether the want to accept it or not, innately good at heart. There definitely are some people who's very nature is to be the counterpart to these decent folk, though, and it's usually from these assholish actions that the seeds of indecision begin to grow in the bruised and broken of the kind hearted. It's as if by seeing the bad in the world, it rise cause for a defensive need to allow one's self to ignore one's own conscience in hopes that they will no longer see themselves as the victims they fear themselves to be in light of the view of oppressing assholish actions. 

Ideally, I'd like to believe that as long as we avoid seeing ourselves from a victim/aggresor dichotomy, then we can retain the self assurances that usually support our own confidences in our own abilities to shape the world around us to affect the courses of actions we see ourselves involved in on a daily basis.

(As per whether or not this is an actual truth to the structure of our modern day humanity, I'm still not completely sure of as I myself still struggle with my own crippling issues of insecurity and identity issues. Fortunately, I can brush most of it off as a quality of being the poetic philosopher I am.)